tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post392175178159362877..comments2023-09-28T08:09:27.958-06:00Comments on flying under the gaydar: rant: judgemental mohosdrexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08140401181617757573noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post-19172436294309810252007-04-30T02:54:00.000-06:002007-04-30T02:54:00.000-06:00Thanks for that rant. I noticed the same thing at ...Thanks for that rant. I noticed the same thing at the last FHE and it really bugged me.<BR/>Since the first time I met him, I've been impressed by Hidden's unique and authentic personality. His eccentricities are a little funny but they're what make him him and I hope he doesn't ever change just to try to fit in. Let Hidden know I think he's pretty cool.el venenohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13496969850090466726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post-6551699797649617742007-04-27T08:27:00.000-06:002007-04-27T08:27:00.000-06:00Wow, I just posted about this same thing here just...Wow, I just posted about this same thing here just the other day. http://allofthisaroundus. blogspot.com/2007/04/stereotyped.html<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I couldn't agree more. I think sometimes the reason why some gay LDS guys discriminate is because they are somewhat insecure with their own mannerisms... they are afraid that they themselves are a screaming queen. Seeing someone who is more effeminate reminds them that they could be the same way and just not know it thus announcing to everyone their orientation. There is nothing worse than coming out to someone and hearing them say "I know." <BR/>I remember I used to be terrified that people would guess that I was gay because of something I said or the way I did it. It's the whole reason I avoided sports in middle school. I didn't want to be called the guy that threw the ball like a girl. Deep down though, I just wanted to play the game with the rest of the guys. <BR/>Once I had a very gay, very obvious roommate. At the time I was not out to myself (whatever that means)and to me, he represented everything I didn't want to be. I was less than hospitable to him at times. Looking back, I see how badly he just needed friends. But really, I was just too insecure myself to be in a position to help him. Anyway... Thanks for saying something that needed to be said.<BR/><BR/>-CaspianDistinguishing Preoccupationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03595180957813663545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post-67937324479008940912007-04-19T11:58:00.000-06:002007-04-19T11:58:00.000-06:00That is truly sad. You know what I think, I think...That is truly sad. You know what I think, I think we are all just too uncomfortable about our own sexuality and manliness, and unfortunately a man who seems to exhibit some of the stereotypical gay behaviours/traits makes us uncomfortable because we are already so insecure about our own selves. It is sad, pathetic, and stupid, but I really think that is true. <BR/><BR/>By the way, I love sushi - almost more than life itself. Not kidding.Craighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09374110841642375968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post-89277182360596759482007-04-18T18:12:00.000-06:002007-04-18T18:12:00.000-06:00I can relate in two areas: double yeah, one more w...I can relate in two areas: double yeah, one more week of school for me as well, before the semester is over and judgmental people (moho or otherwise) frustrate me. dude, where's the love?!Marlohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04390698740183864975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post-69269256840199319792007-04-18T16:31:00.000-06:002007-04-18T16:31:00.000-06:00Uh-oh, Drex. Now you can never be a politician bec...Uh-oh, Drex. Now you can never be a politician because you flip-flopped on the spelling of judgement! (Firefox 2 still thinks that you can't have the first "e" but OED disagrees.)<BR/><BR/>But no, I know what you mean. Sometimes we forget just how little we like being judged.Stephenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234050525776274442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post-4333307322132446432007-04-18T16:27:00.000-06:002007-04-18T16:27:00.000-06:00Oh, also, wasn't it you who shot me down when I sp...Oh, also, wasn't it you who shot me down when I spelled judgmental with an 'e' back in the day? I argued that both were acceptable and you continued to make fun of me. Now you're a flip-flopper. Golly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post-67771027057654400632007-04-18T16:26:00.000-06:002007-04-18T16:26:00.000-06:00Brother bob has no such luck. Stupid mail system,...Brother bob has no such luck. Stupid mail system, all bogged down with tax forms.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post-47254042132878937302007-04-18T16:12:00.000-06:002007-04-18T16:12:00.000-06:00I'll jump in before any z-snapping breaks out.I lo...I'll jump in before any z-snapping breaks out.<BR/><BR/>I love Hidden! We only met the one time, true, but I thought I was a YouTube expert before he pulled up some thirty videos I had never seen before.<BR/><BR/>Anyone funny is okay in my book.playasinmarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05998841658611428960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post-79245553101258312732007-04-18T16:10:00.000-06:002007-04-18T16:10:00.000-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.playasinmarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05998841658611428960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2988935280992028565.post-84357000785644116582007-04-18T15:22:00.000-06:002007-04-18T15:22:00.000-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.playasinmarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05998841658611428960noreply@blogger.com